The symbolism behind the phrase “Tying the Knot”
Why did I choose the name Tying the Knot Design?
You might be wondering why I chose the name “Tying the Knot Design” and what exactly does it symbolise when it comes to wedding planning as well as macrame making? We’ve all probably heard the phrase ‘Tying the Knot’ when we are talking about getting married, but what really does it mean and where does it originate from?
Tying the knot, the handfasting ceremony
The phrase 'tie the knot' is thought to come from a wedding tradition that is almost as old as time; the handfasting ceremony that is often seen in Pagan marriages. This ancient practice, which dates back to the medieval era, literally binds couples together in matrimony by tying knots of cloth around each of their hands.
The bride and grooms wrists were often tied in this way to ensure their commitment to each other, a symbolism of a lasting unity. Knots therefore have a place right back in folklore and can often symbolize unbreakable pledges.
Another school of thought takes us back to the 17th century, where brides favours were nearly always in blue. These consisted of coloured ribbons tied in knots that were loosely stitched on the brides dress, which were then plucked off by the guests at the wedding breakfast. Often then worn by the men to bring them luck in life and marriage.
These days, many couples include a hand tying ritual in addition to their actual ceremony, where sashes are often placed over the wrists.
Macrame, the art of knot tying
